Saturday, March 29, 2008

Project: Zero Dating for One Year

Part 1:  The Rationale

Oo na, sige, aminado na ako, I’ve been a serial-dater.  But most of what I had were just casual dates.  Meet-ups lang.  Friendly getting-to-know convertsation.  It doesn’t always end up in bed, but some serious ones began on it.  Hehehe.

Isang guy dito sa multiply ang nagbansag sa akin na I’m an elimidater.  And for the umpteenth time, sorry uli.  Hindi ko talaga sinasadya na pagsabay-sabayin i-meet ang pang 7:30, ang pang 8:00, ang pang 8:30, etc nang 10:00pm when I visited your city.  Nagkataon lang talaga na naextend ang pinapagawa ng boss ko.  And knowing na I had to flew back by morning, kailangan ko talagang magpokus on who I want to spend that entire night with.  Hahaha.  (ouch, I’m already saying sorry, no need to stomp on my tail everyone).
 
But times do change.  At sa maniwala man kayo o hindi, may mga gabing nagpapapuyat sa akin ang Little Voice, telling me to seek personal growth, and that having a hard-on doesn’t count.

This same pesky voice had been annoying me since time immemorial.  Na kesyo mas maganda daw at normal ang gumising ng 6:00am kesa magsimulang matulog.  At mas productive nga naman na i-spend ang 90% computer use sa work kesa magsurf/chat sa dating sites.  Na mas healthy ang ratio of 4:1 ng food vs beer kesa other way around.

 At dahil kakatapos lang ng 2nd Longest Dating ko, which frustratingly ended badly, I think its about time I listen.  And so, I come up with this project I will go into details on my following posts.  Antagal ko na rin namang hindi gumagawa ng series.

 I know this project won’t get me a Noble prize, lalo namang hindi ako magkakaron ng ginintuang hoola-hoop sa tuktuk ng ulo ko.  I just think, somehow, that this quote really matters:

 “Plant your own garden,
And decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting [seeking] someone
To bring you flowers”
-------------Veronica Shoffstall, After A While

Hehehe, kaya for one year, I will do just that.  Mag garden ng self.  Sana after, I can find that guy who I can annoy for the rest of my life with.

Wish me luck!  =)

37 comments:

Joshua Caleb Roa said...

dating and all that comes with it is too fun to give up. hehehe.. GOOD LUCK! :D

Miko Legaspi said...

hehehe, un ang challenge. =)

Joshua Caleb Roa said...

hehehehe.. yeah, run away from temptation nalang! hehehe...

Miko Legaspi said...

yup, hehehe, avoiding temptation is part of the plan,
i'll be posting the rest later, hahaha

Joshua Caleb Roa said...

sure.. i will try to view it. this no dating thing has sparked my interest. hehehe.. a year is really really really long Miks. hehehe...

Cobes Clavano said...

good luck... ;-)

Renz Pedro said...

go0d luck miko-chin! the moment you start telling me that the project was unsuccessful, i'm gonna laugh and poke your tummy! nyaha.

Miko Legaspi said...

salamat po coby at renz-chan,
hehehe,
i needs lotsa luck
and inhuman fighting spirit,
hahaha.
ung kay pareng josh hartnet nga
40 days and 40 nyts lang
nagdedeliryo na,
pano pa kaya ang One Year Project ko?
hahahaha.

'BillyBoi' ' said...

ay goodluck to you loverboi. hehehe

Miko Legaspi said...

hahaha,
so far, puro goodluck wishes
and laughs
palang narereceive ko,
hahaha.

=)

gab panzo said...

haha. kakayanin mo ba? haha. oo naman. :P

Daniel Cruz said...

ganyan din kaya gawin ko? haha

Miko Legaspi said...

hahaha,
salamat sa mga suporta,
hahaha

comeshine: try mo rin,
palitan tau ng project plan at mga tips
hahaha.

=)

'BillyBoi' ' said...

Zero dating for you is a plan that might change, who knows somebody new will be there, someone who you can consider the right one... The one who understand your complex thoughts =)

Miko Legaspi said...

nyahaha

"in my way of thinking
in fact she'll often disagree,
but at the end of it all,
she will understand me."
-------------Depeche Mode, Somebody

'BillyBoi' ' said...

that's what I'm talking about.
Knowing you, not really a lot... but I got what you mean when we first met. =)

Miko Legaspi said...

aawwtss,
natatandaan mo pa pala loverboi,
hehehe

dax macaraya said...

i so miss you! eh yung date natin???

dax macaraya said...

Sana after, I can find that guy who I can annoy for the rest of my life with.

or find that "girl" :)

Miko Legaspi said...

nyahaha

i so miss you girlhalf =)

talagang guy na, hahaha.

ung date natin, treat kita after i made my first milliion.

hahaha

Pat Pat said...

waw naman!!!! edi mayaman ka na non apter wan year?

Miko Legaspi said...

hahaha,
sana sana
para makapagpalaki na din ako ng katawan,
hahaha
saka ako magiging snob,
hahaha

juan paolo fernandez said...

goodluck pareng miko!
paki-count na rin ang pagpapataba
nyahaha!
:peace!

Miko Legaspi said...

nyahaha
part nga un ng "self-growth"

hahaha

salamat salamat.

=)

inori takamune said...

hay nako miko talga naman oh kaya di kita natagaln eh peace ^^ musta na goodluck nlang sayo hahaha

Miko Legaspi said...

nyahaha,
bunso naman,
hindi na nga nakikipagdate,
inaaway mo pa ko,
hahaha

=)

bati tau ha.
=)

inori takamune said...

di nakikipag date ka dyan hmmmp ok sabi mo pero makati ka pa din di nga date pero toot toot namn noh hay naku miko hahahha peace ^^


nu bati sipain kita dyan eh ahhahah ^^

Miko Legaspi said...

hahaha,

zero dating lang naman ang project ko ah,
anong koneksyon non sa $ex lyf?
hahaha

=)

grand reunion ng tissue clan,
overnyt swimming here in bataan,
(mas malapit kesa sa batangas swimming natin)

confirmed attendees si peter at warren,
si pat, bong, brent at partners nila, possible to come,
join ka ba?

=)

inori takamune said...

im not yet sure but try ko at pag pumayag asawa ko kasi di namn sumasama sa ganyan at di namn mahilig sa ganyan un eh

inori takamune said...

i dont care klung 0 date BASTA MAKATI KA PAREN BELAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Miko Legaspi said...

hahaha,
ikaw nga jan,
naka ilang palit na ng partner,
ako di pa nakakaisa,

hahahaha

inori takamune said...

ako namn lagi niloloko kahit di ganun atleast di ako nanloloko kasama ka nga dun diba hahhah bleat ano ka ngayn

Miko Legaspi said...

hala bunso,
hindi ako nanloloko noh,
kilala mo me,
i don't lie

=)

Carlos Javier Primicias said...

Heheh. Sounds family yun ah! LOL.

So kamusta naman so far Mik ang one year mo? 44 na araw na ang naka lipas.... hmm... 321 na lang na araw! Heheh!

Miko Legaspi said...

hahaha
kilala mo nga xa,
i think isa xa sa mga nireto mo
hahaha

more than one month had passed
11 months to go

fight fight fight!

hahaha

Carlos Javier Primicias said...

Waah! Nilagay talaga kung sino ang promotor eh. Waah! Hahahaha!

Hmm... makakaya kaya ni Miko ang zero date in 1 year?? Abangan!!

Miko Legaspi said...

hahaha

letsee letsee letsee

hahaha