Wednesday, October 11, 2006

Do We Need to Define Love?

Marami akong nakilala na sapat na raw ang kaalaman nila tungkol sa pag-ibig.  Na hindi nila kinakailangan pang pag-aralan ito.

Kontento na sila na magpalutang-lutang sa ibabaw, at paglaluruan ng mga alon.

"I do not need to learn love.  I know love, cause I feel love."
-------------Dony, Conversations with a Friend

But more often than not, a big wave comes in, and it will push you deeper into the depth, the mysteries of love.  Sometimes, you get a glimpse of the beuty underneath.  And sometimes, you only see the shock and pain that the wave brought, making you lose sight, and faith, on true love.

May mga tao naman na handang huminga ng malalim, pigilin ito kahit na sandali, upang masisid ang kailaliman ng misteryo, at madiskubre ang itinatagong kagandahan ng pag-ibig.

Ang blog na to ay hindi para sa lahat.  Sabi nga ng mga psychologist, mahirap payuhan ang mga taong komportable.  Natutunan kong tanggihan na bigyan ng advice ang mga taong kinikilig-kilig pa.

Ang blog na to ay para sa mga pagod na at sugatan.  Sa mga sawa na.  Sa mga takot ng muling sumubok.

---to be continued.

11 comments:

XXXX YYYY said...

hmmm.. nananapadalas ata post mo about love love na yan ah..

Miko Legaspi said...

hehehe, inspired lng.

sa totoo, matagal na me pinagsusulat ng mga naging clients ko (love counseling) but i don't have sustained motivation, hehehe. but in here, may mga bumabasa at nagbibigay ng feedback. kaya natutuloy-tuloy ko. i hope matapos at madiscuss ko lahat. =)

XXXX YYYY said...

wow...

oh okay.. aantayin ko ang susunod hehehe..

'lam mo ba nahawa din ako sayo.. hehehe..

the latest post i did was inspired by you hahaha..

*** James *** said...

keep it up miko!

Miko Legaspi said...

thanks guys. hehehe.

jayr c. said...

If you love some one because you think that he or
she is really gorgeous....
Then it's not love It's ~* Infatuation *~

If you love some one because you think that you
shouldn't leave him because
others think that you shouldn't...
Then it's not love It's ~* Compromise *~

If you love some one because you have been
kissed by him...
Then it's not love It's ~* Inferiority complex *~

If you love some one because you cannot leave
him thinking that it would
hurt his feelings...
Then it's not love It's ~* Charity *~

If you love some one because you share every
thing with him...
Then it's not love... It's ~* Friendship *~

But if you feel the pain of the other person more
than him even when he is
stable and you cry for him...
That's ~* LOVE *~

If you get attracted to other people but stay with
him without any
regrets...
That's ~* LOVE *~

If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he
doesn't want to...
That's ~* LOVE *~

Love doesn't have to have a happy
ending, 'cause love doesn't have to end at
all.

Never be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt
a lot, it may give you aches and pains, but if you
don't follow your heart, in the end you will cry
even more for not giving love a chance.

Love may leave your heart like shattered glass,
but keep in mind that there's someone who'll be
willing to endure the pain of picking up the
pieces so you could be whole again.

The cruelest thing a guy could do to a girl is to
let him fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch
him fall! And fooling around with his feelings like
they meant nothing!!!

Miko Legaspi said...

well, that's nice. but i still haven't seen manifestations of love, as i learned it to be, in there. =) sowee.

Joshua Caleb Roa said...

hell yeah. love is definitely a non-written something sunthen.. hehehe.. ;D

Arjae Vitug said...

i guess love is not to be defined at all. but with all these definitions, its nice that some people uncover love's secrets. all in all, love is still a mystery. what matters is that when you love, the only reason for loving is love itself. not the person, but the love that has filled you.

Miko Legaspi said...

well, in defining love, our intention is to eliminate or at least minimize the misconceptions. maraming nagsusuffer, pumapatay at nagpapakamatay. is this because of too much love? or just a misconception?

there are legitimate sufferings, mga pagdurusa na kailangan nating pagdaanan para sa pag-ibig.

"To be wounded in our own understanding of love,
and to bleed willingly and joyfully"
-------------Kalil Gibran, The Prophet

but meron namang unneccessary suffering. na kung hindi lang tayo ignorant sa Art of Loving, nabawasan sana ang trial at errors.

"A smart man learn from his mistakes,
A wise man learn from the mistakes of others.
-------------Unknown, Miko's Collected Quotes

Rynnel Tolosa said...

you know you are right in saying those things. nakakasawa na din magmahal at masaktan ang sobra lalo na pagmahal mo ng totoo. pero tao lang naman din ako na marunong magmahal muli diba. pero other people often misunderstood what real love is and what real love can do.